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1 00:00:00.000 --\> 00:01:00.000 you need to find a spouse who you say
this is how i want to live my life is that the kind of life you want to
live and so i think a lot of people do this kind of like trying to meet
in the middle thing and then both people are unhappy you want to be the
most unreasonable about all the things that you want to do turn as many
people away as humanly possible and so i think one of the things that i
love the most about layla is that she has never tried to change me like
a lot of us make these concessions because we believe we should or we
have to or it's a part of marriage i don't believe that and i think that
if you want to live an exceptional life then that means that you will
live as an exception and if you want to live an uncommon life you cannot
have common views
